Japan, Lifestyle, Lifestyle

Living in Japan as a Military Family: The Pros & Cons of Our Experience

Living in Japan as a Military Family: The Pros & Cons of Our Experience

We landed in Japan nearly 9 months ago and our lives have not been the same since. This is our experience living in Japan as a Military Family…

Living in Japan

Japan is a beautiful place with plenty of opportunities to grow. As a foreigner, you can teach English as a hobby or explore the country by train. The first few months I focused on the positives side of Japan but there are also downsides to this beautiful country we love so much. 

Being a military family living in Japan, we have more benefits than the average foreigner but we still face some challenges so I’ll start with the positives. 


  1. Hospitality: Most people we’ve met are very friendly and accommodating. The amount of attention my family gets on a daily basis is overwhelming.  When I was pregnant, a local father voluntarily helped me carry my son in his stroller down the stairway of a restaurant. 
  2. Another time, a lady randomly bought us more meals while we were eating at our favorite restaurant. 
  3. Oh, the time a neighbor gave us cherries from his tree just because… 
  4. Food: we only hear about Japan and their love for sushi but what’s not talked about is the other varieties of foods like okonomiyaki, yakisoba,yakinuki, and our favorite, onigiri. Oh, let’s not forget all the French-inspired bakeries at every cover of the city. Fresh pain au chocolat from the bakery has become our norm as we head home from the market every weekend with a basket full of seasonal vegetables. If you’re a foodie, Japan is the place to be. 
  5. Family Friendly: This is one of my main reason for loving this country and potentially why I wouldn’t mind living here for a long period of time. They are extremely child-friendly. The child is treated respectfully. 
  6. Train System: if you want to be on time, take the train. The speed limit on a non-toll road is 40mph which is …. So it takes me roughly 40 minutes to get home by car. The train takes me about 20 minutes and I’m right in front of our place. 
  7. Convenience Store:  I seriously don’t know how we are going to survive without them if we move one day. Whether it’s paying a bill or picking up a bowl of ramen, whatever you need, you’ll find almost everything you need in a convenience store. It’s very convenient. 


… might not be a big deal to some but they have made our experience here less pleasant.  Here are some negative aspects of living in Japan as a military family…

  1. Food: I’ve mentioned this before but they have pork in everything… including Tofu. International food is extremely expensive. 
  2. Toll/Parking Fees:  My least favorite part about living here. There are parking fees EVERYWHERE. 
  3. Narrow Streets: The streets are very narrow. It’s so narrow, it’s could be intimidating to a foreigner. A few days after purchasing our first car, the car fell in the gutter on our way home from the grocery stores. Thankfully, the neighbors didn’t mind coming to our rescue. What we consider one way street in the states is the two-way traffic road here for cars, motorcycles, and pedestrians. 
  4. Perfectionist: I love Japan but I truly believe it’ll be a better place if they didn’t focus so much on being perfect. Often time people are struggling but can’t seek help or don’t know how to. During our first month here, I saw a post in one of the local Facebook groups alerting others that the Keikyu line has temporarily stopped working because of a “Jumper”  someone intentionally jumped on the tracks to end their life. The news was disturbing. Sadly, this type of post becomes frequent on a weekly basis. To make matters worse, the family of the deceased gets fined for “inconveniencing” the city/prefecture 
  5. Use of plastic: plastic bags are very popular here. Everyone everywhere uses them.

Ahoefa Adjowa

Travel & Lifestyle Blogger

You may also like...

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *